Monday, May 12, 2008

well i really had to blog this. yesterday was mother's day and the day before i went to jb and it was fun i went with my neighbour's daughther and their aunties.i didnt want to go at first but i wanted to buy my mum a mothers day gift so i went in the end.well we went and did some shopping and i bought a god statue for my mum.but the most suprising thing was on the next day which was on the mothers day.well my mum went temple in the morning and there was big preparations going on in my neighbours house for mother's day.but that is usual cos my neighbours family is very big and they usually have big celebration but the shocking part came later on. my mum was sck so she went to apply for mc(mdical leave) and so she stayed home and in the evening my neighbours called us to join in the celebration we were so paise and didnt wanna go cos their family is quit big and there will be alot of pple but they forced us so we went.after that they started the whole thing off with the head of the family who is the grandmother and asked her to cut the cake and her children fed her first then each of the granchildren fed their own mum and they asked me to feed my mum.and when i fed my mum i actually cried cos i was really touched by how loving they were and that they actually considered us as a family and made us join in the celebration. after i cried all the mothers also cried when their children were feeding cake.i kinda started off the crying proccess but i really couldnt control cos in my family my aunties n uncles have never been like that as in loving and it is all cos of my granmother who only likes her daughters children and as for the son's children she only likes the son with money.my father's side pple are really terrible you cant expect love from them at all.haiz they always treat me n my sis one kind and my other cousins one kind.even when they are having a gathering they wont bother calling us they only look for us when they need us to do something for them.thats why i was really touched when my neighbours treated us like family.how i wish my family was like that and we could have this kind of gatherings on occasions.well i jus think that i am not fated to have all this.i jus wish in my nxt birth i should have such a loving family.
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